mrskillett asked:
Hey girl, my hubs is training for a deployment right now. He leaves in January. Is it really as bad as I think it's going to be?

It Depends girlfriend! Not gonna lie- it’s been pretty difficult. It’s not so much the distance as the worry…Joshua is infantry & in Afghanistan aka anxiety central for me.
We’re able to talk almost every day and we have a really good relationship so it’s not so much the actual relationship that’s the problem…it’s
bracing yourself for terrible but very real possibilities. It’s realizing how important it is to touch someone (not even just sexually, just little touches). It’s trying to make plans and having them changed last second. It’s trying to coordinate almost exact opposite time zones. It’s having to do a lot of things on your own without totally losing your shit.

Day by day sucks, so I won’t tell you it’s easy. But now that this deployment is about to end for us, it doesn’t seem so bad :) you can do it girlfriend!! XX


literallyrad:

there are approximately 1,013,913 words in the english language but i could never string any of them together to explain how much i want to hit you with a chair.


binithebabe:

romanoffbarnes:

 Buckynat AU | Natasha as Anastasia and Bucky as Dimitri

"If we live through this, remind me to thank you."

cockblock-and-dropit

OMG


phandoms-united:

art-sex-drugs:

I have finally hit my breaking point. For as long as I can remember I have endured my mother’s abuse, whether it is verbal, emotional, or as seen here physical. I can expect some act of violence on a daily basis, and her beating me is not an usual occurrence, but today something snapped. My mother did this unprovoked, and this time she didn’t stop. Usually it’s bad for a little while and then she’s done, today it went on for what seemed like forever. At a certain point I decided I was going to do something I never do, call the police. You see, my mother is a highly respected and very well known person where I live. She is on the board of ed, worked for CPS for many years, and is close personal friends with people like the local chief of police, director of our local CPS unit, and so on. I always knew that calling wouldn’t go anywhere and just upset her more, but today I had to try. While she was kicking me I found my opportunity, and somehow managed to get away from someone more than twice my size. I ran as fast as I could, knocking things over behind my, trying to find a phone. I dialed and they listened and my mother proceeding to beat me over it, while I screamed for help. For the second time today, I managed to get away from her and ran to my room. I barely had enough time to lock my door, before she starting trying to get it, to the point that she ripped my door off the frame. I decided I was going to stay locked in there, until the police came. The past few months I have been collecting evidence against her, voice recordings, pictures like these, and videos of her violence, so they couldn’t dispute what was going on. But I was dead wrong. 

When the officer finally came up to my room, I attempted to tell him my side of the story, but before I could get a sentence out he silenced me. HE told me that this was my mothers house, and I needed to live by her rules. If I didn’t she had the right to punish me. He also told me to be tankful for her, because he wanted to press assault charges against me. finally, he refused, despite my begging, for him to take me to a shelter for teens. 

I am utterly disgusted by the injustice that occurred today. I pray there is no one else out there who is living in such a situation. I am not sure exactly what I am getting out of writing this, except maybe that it’s just nice to be able to open up about this, when I have had to keep it a secret my whole life. idk. sorry for posting such heavy shit. 

Signal boost the fuck out of this

(Source: kosmological)


denise-huxxtable:

huntingvoldemortinamobilelibrary:

if you don’t think this carries an important message about our society then you are what is wrong with human society today

And this is why when you see a post empowering and uplifting black women, do not invade it with “don’t you mean all women.” No, because this is not the reality of “all women.”

(Source: angrywocunited)

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